Why do the same arguments keep resurfacing in your marriage? On this episode of Focus on the Family with Jim Daly, Gabe and Rebekah Lyons share how unresolved pain, learned conflict patterns, and unspoken emotions can create distance between spouses—and how God can bring healing, understanding, and renewed intimacy.

In this video, you’ll learn:
🔹 How to recognize silent, intense, avoidant, and anxious conflict patterns
🔹 Why childhood experiences can influence arguments about money, intimacy, and parenting
🔹 How naming your emotions can lead to healthier conversations
🔹 What to do when your spouse seems unwilling to work on the marriage
🔹 How vulnerability, community, and faith can help couples reconnect

Your spouse is not the enemy—and the patterns dividing you do not have to define your future together.